Christmas 2009

This is the first christmas with baby.... hehe...

I tink 2-3week b4 christmas, baby told me that we gg meet his frens for christmas countdown... CHRISTMAS COUNTDOWN?!?!?!???? FAINT lor... i hate crowded place.... super faint... but oso cannot say anything... so got to agree lor... Sian X 1000 times... -_-'''

Even though i agree to it... but seriously the moment i tink of countdown... i super cannot take it.. maybe cos i getting old liao... hahaha... anyway, i started to call n 'complain' to all my close friends abt this event... complain all the way till christmas eve.... lolx...

Anyway, I pass baby's present to him abt 2weeks b4 christmas... and I insist him to open it... cos i wanna know he like it a not.... cos it's a pair of rabbit... very the cute de hor... hehe

1week before christmas, baby gave me my present.... hmmmm.. is a supplement that i always wanted... hehe...

ANyway, I am still nagging abt the countdown to all my friends....

On christmas' eve, baby told me that we will be meeting his firends at 7pm at Marina barage. That afternoon, Sheena they all came to my place majong... we played till around 6.30pm den baby super unhappy when he knew we are still playing when he came back to my place fm office at about 6pm. Anyway, i oso don really care... haha... I feel so bad now... cos on that day, I was thinking "why do we need to reach so early when the countdown start at 11.59pm??"

Anyway, we rush down there... and in the end, Baby supprise me again... cos we went to Marina Pier... Baby made a reservation at the Riverboat for 2.... :> I would said that it was an expensive dinner... and I was super giddy on the boat, cos the waves was quite rough... But I am really very touched by all the things Baby had arranged.... Atthe end of the dinner, Baby told me that he needs to go to the Gents.... den he came back few minutes later with a present placed on the food tray and behaved like a little waiter... and he passed the present to me... I was very surprise again... cos he had already given me a present already.... i could guess wat was in the little box.... when i open it... it was a part of a fishing equipment components... baby bought me a fishing rod!!!!! and the fishing line and the parts are all pink n red.... he was sad that the fishing rod he couldn't get mi a pink/red one.... Baby, thank you for everything and I realli love it a lot.... especially the Christmas card with me and baby's pictures.... The best thing that I every recieved for this christmas is BABY!!! I wanna spend the next 10000000000000000000000years with baby.... LOVE U MOST...

2nd Oversea trip, Genting 29th Oct 09 - 1st Nov 09

Baby n mi went to the genting (our 2nd oversea trip)....

Went to take the Five Star Travel coach at Boon Lay shopping Centre... On the way the Genting, Baby was very excited... and i was sleeping all the while... haha... he told mi that the scenary was very the nice.... hmm... but i prefer to meet Mr. Zhou Gong.... den reach there he very sleepy lor.... haha... slp till the next morning in First World resort... faint...

1st day, it was raining the whole day.... so baby cannot go theme park... we went to eat Marry Brown... Baby oso feel that it is nice.... den the whole day we just walk ard and take pictures... he super wat lor.... keep insisting to go theme park... raining lor... LIKE A KID... super buai ta han... hahaha...

2nd day, we went to outdoor theme park... play the whole day... i very tired lor... i cannot imagine that next time i old le, still need to go theme park with my kids... i tink i will die lor... a big baby is enough le... every game wanna play lor... faint.. den he insisted to play the tokens games to win a soft toy for me... faint lor, spent a lot n dint manage to get anything... haha... not lucky enough... den it started to rain again.... went indoor to buy the indoor theme park tickets...
Play whole day... tired but very fun.... hehe...

Den stay in the arcade n play games... won many game tickets and exchange for many gifts.. haha...

Went to take the cable-car with baby... he super super happy lor.... haha... love him a lot..

Went in the casino, play RM60 den baby heart pain... faint... den i decided to leave... but we drink a lot of milo inside... haha..

3rd day, after breakfast at the super crowded resort cafe... went walk walk n den go back sg le...

Had a lot fun over there... BAby, LOVE U....

Just some thoughts...

It's just some thoughts.....

Today, Baby bought me a note-book for my new part-time job de *note- taking*...

Initially, i wanted a cover with many many colours.... But Baby feel that the 1 with plain cover is nicer....

His point of view : Simple is nice... life should be simplified....

My point of view : Life should be colourful.... colour adds life to days...

Everyone have different values and different views in different things...

This make each of us a unique personnel...

Anyway, I just choose the 1 that Baby like lor.... ^_^

Today, baby shared with me that 2 of his friends (a couple who had been 2gather for almost 5years) was having some relationship troubles.... It just make me feel that communication is an impt factor being a couple... Hmmm.. How should I put it...? Because the longer period the couple attached to each other (Physically attached to each other, seeing each other)... They always thought that the other party should understand and know them well enough... well enough to know what are they thinking about or how are they feeling... cos the thinking n feeling of "we have been togather for so long already... U should know me"..... But the fact is... Male and Female are TOTALLY DIFFERENT... That's why they are called the "OPPOSITE"... Being 2gather doesn't make u understand/know each other.... If that is the case, why dint u know and understand ALL of ur colleagues since u SEE and BE WITH them 5days per week....? Anyway, as a couple, As years go by... the more u tink that he/she should know u better and better... however, without communication to each other on ur feeling, thoughts, or even ur love, etc... nothing is gonna happen.... the distance between both of u is actually drifting apart... Therefore, sometime being direct and straight-forward, or even asking qns, and telling him/her simple things like :

-U make my day cos.....

-It hurts me when u.....

-the event happened just now actually affects me....

-why are u feeling sad? Had I done something that upset u?

-I don't understand why are u doing this...? In my point of veiw..

-What I actually want is.....

-U make me feels that I am nt as impt as ur frens.... because......

-I need a listening ears today.... I do not need any suggestion at this moment...

-We have not been talking these few days, how about a coffee @ a cafe??

Understanding = communication...

Love requires understanding, muture respects, time, patience, communication, trust, faithful, honestly, caring, concern, believed, toleration (to naggings?? hahaha), and even white lies (lolx).. there might be more, but this is what i can tink of at this moment....

Job offer... (Part time)

Went for a job interview today at NUS there.... they stated tat will let me know by end of this week whether I am selected....

However, they called me this evening to ask me to go sign a contract with them as a part-timer for a maximum of 6mths b4 they can offer mi a full time job... work as a clinical research technician...

So working for an average of 1-3 days per week.... hmmm.. oso gt night shift... but no CPF will be given.... maybe just give it some time 1st ba... anyway I had not done lab job for a year le... oso bo bian..... just do it 1st ba.... but they stated got bond... like.. if I break the contract den need to pay back... gt to wait till Wed when i go see the contract den know...

Anyway, hope this will be a good start... hehe.. Wish me good luck...

Hard to please everyone..... not even myself....

How can we please everyone....?

When I tried to please the 1st party... the third party is unhappy...

so I tried to talk to the 1st party.... and tried to please the third part... den don know why third party seems n sound so unhappy.... or maybe unwilling...?

So wat now? ggo clubing or go Genting?? Genting plan was planned long ago..

Nvm le.... tok to Qi... she said depend on me to feel which of the 2 things more impt... so now... my plan is to go clubing... genting will postpone or c how ba...

Must enjoy life 1st.... dont tink too much....

New job application.....??

This morning, baby told mi he wanted to try the SIA cabin crew... he stated tat the salary is good... cos his friend told him so.... and can fly to many different places... and get good money...

Hmmm... I am upset abt the whole situation... cos, i told him he will nt be in Singapore so many many days.... and there are so many ladies there... and is damn many lor.... not I don have trust in him... but, is there are so many types of gals ard... they will sai ko u till they get wat they want de wah.... cos flying to other places mean u gg stay in the hotels in those places wah... How many times can u reject a temptation (or temptations)? baby like so guai n silly... sumtimes, i tink if pple sell him away, he still help the seller count money lor...

hmmm den I told him his height cannot meet the requirement... (LOL).. anyway... just don tink it a good idea... told him... but he don reaali know wat is my concern.... so he plan to leave mi behind alone while he flying ard?? how many years can he work there... den after the few years there, wat can he do if they do not renew the contract??

What realli trigger me to write this blog was that... he msn mi to help him check his application b4 he send it..... and the email subject is "help mi check if there is anything wrong with the form... tks"...... Hmmm... why so formal, and asking me to check when i stated tat I am worried abt him taking/applying for this job.... I seriously don like the idea that he will be away from me... so wat if the money is high? and i am alone...? anyway... he stated tat he will talk and discuss with mi tonite after work..... He just don't understand.....

Here is part of the conversation we had on MSN just now....

"i send liao e SIA app form...hlp me c whether gt anyting wrng"

Cinderella~~says: -__-''

"i mean i email u, didnt send yet...2nite we discuss"

"$3.5k is e pay ....cool"

Cinderella~~says:oh..

Cinderella~~says:hmm... later the gals sai ko u....

"hmmm....hav confident in me....i love u n is forever.... desheng noe my character de...."

"i wana give u gd life...wana married u... stay @ condo shldnt b any problem in future. hehehe.. 3,5 jus e normal wah...when gt bonus...power liao...."

"nvm 2nite we discuss properly. anyway like wht u say...nt mean i can get it oso"

Cinderella~~ says:....

I wanna say... I also know your character... and I know u.... but I just need u to know.... People do change with time..... and many people go with the flow... there are many other thing more den just money.... I know... Without money, there nothing we can do... however, there are things that money can't buy....

Anyway, it's your decision... it's ur choice... cos it's your life....

HP got stolen... and some thoughts

Today, baby and mi went Orchard walk walk.... den i decided to go Kinokuniya read some books.... haii... stayed there for 2hrs... den after tat... went to shop shop ard take area... den suddenly, baby said Qi missed call him.. den i start searching for my mobile.... GONE!!!!! den used baby hp to call... line was switched off... faint.... i tink some1 stole it fm my bag while i leave it on the floor in Kino while doing some reading... i concentrating reading lor.... -_-

But i somehow very impressed about myself... cos, I dint realli got angry abt this... dint realli angry baby not taking care of mi n my things... My anger management now super good.... sorry, use wrong term... should be SUPER SUPER DAMN GOOD!!! I seriously feel that i changed le... I tink if last time, i will be scolding and shouting at pple.... but, now, i know that if i got angry abt these things.... i will onli be making other pple upset..... cos even if i gt angry abt things, there are certain things that cant be undo..... :>

Hmm.. i called dad and tell him abt the inccident... den ask him to meet mi at westmall.. cos the line under his name... so need him to be there to get the SIM card... Baby said he want to get mi a new mobile.. but i don wan.. hmmm... cos i know he oso very tight... so i ask dad if he ok to get mi a fone... i said i wan an iphone.... he ok with it... so sweet~~~ but den i found out the iphone need ard $800 with my current plan n recontract... i tink is too exp le... so i decided to get E66 (same as dad de... haha) so after all the contract n $80 voucher, the E66 cos $218.... the 2nd fone dad got for mi... the 1st is Nokia 8250 when i got it at the age of 17.

Today, I told baby that I feel that he don realli care n love mi le... den he ask mi why... i told him is just a feeling....

Tat day, they said that after being 2gather for 1-2yrs.. couple feeling towards each other will fade... I don agree... cos i know i will love the 1 I loved forever de...

In long run, I know tat no matter how close a couple is, there will always be disagreement, mis-communication, mis-understanding, lies, doubts, unhappiness... etc... even nagging (haha)... etc... but, if they seriously love each other, none of these outer factors will be able to break the relation ba... tat's how i feel....

Of cos, sometimes, I somehow will be affected by wat happen between us... or even be affected by wat others said... BUT, affected doesn't means that it reduced my feeling towards baby... It make mi tink more about realtionship... of cos, guys won't always understand how we feel... But i hope tat baby will try to know how i feel even if i don tell him wat's in my heart.... i know that the best is being straight forward and tell him everything, but as a gal, we don't realli tell everything ba... (^_^)

Mid-Autumn Festival

Dad, Sis, Bro, Wenda, Baby and mi celebrated our Mid-autumn at out the park near my hse... was very fun.... took many many photos... hmmm... lazy to write.. just show u pix... hehe

Our 1st Oversea Trip - Batam (26th-28th Sept 2008)

Went to Batam with baby last sat.... hehe.. Ya... Our 1st trip out of Singapore..

The place is very nice... Sunset is very very beautiful... and many fishes.. hehe... Show u some pictures 1st before I go further... hahaha...

We board the ferry from Harbour Front... the ferry is called "BatamFast"... I tink baby is very very excited about this trip... cos he keep taking pictures... Actually, he wanted to bring mi go Taiwan de... but I feel that is too expensive le... so i suggested Batam... And we enjoy the trip...





I really love the company of Baby.... He always show so much love and care for me.... is not just in this trip... is since the day that i knew him....

We went to do a 90minutes full body massage, 30 minutes leg/head and shoulder message... and I done a 45min jap-body scrub... baby so funny lor.... keep LAUGHING when the lady massage his feet... he said itchy... LOL... ITCHY????? hahahaha...



I got to say that we eat a lot over there... Cos baby keep saying hungry every moment....haha...
Baby surprised me with a candle-light dinner on the 2nd night.... and I am REALLY SURPRISE... we susposed to got out for dinner tat evening.... den baby suddenly walk to the candle-light dinner de table and pull out the chair and ask mi to sit down.... I was like -_-"""" and ???????....... Den I start thinking "baby wanna take pictures ah?? so brave... other people's dinner and seats oso can sit down ah.....?" Den Baby ask the waiter to serve the food.... :) he is always tat sweet...... and we put fireworks when the food is served... No wonder he insisted to get some firework that afternoon... hehe...

Anyway, he secretly went to book the dinner while we were having our breakfast on the2nd day... Cos the 1st nite, I saw people having candle-light dinner atthe sea-side... No wonder, when having breakfast tat morning, he suddenly tell me that he need to go to the Gents... den never mind lor... he go super damn long lor... i tot he stuck in the toilet bowl lor... hahahahahha.. so the story is... he ran all the way back to our room and take $ to the cashier... no wonder he say eat breakfast don need bring anything... so, is he wanted to secretly "take" the money to do things w/o telling me.... "doing things behind me" ^_^ hehehe... but why he don just bring the $ with him huh... hahaha... anyway, he always so cute de wor.....


On the third day, which is the last day, we had our breakfast and "stole" 15-slices of bread to feed the fishes... Hahaha... Went to a seafood lunch and a day trip... And Baby don'd dare to eat the Gong-Gong.... haha.. so... I decided that, 1 day i WILL make him eat Gong-Gong and drink fresh milk de... haha...




Baby, thank you for everything.... Serious appreciate everything that u had done.... LOVE U MOST!! hehe...

Swimming

Went to the Jurong East Swimming Complex on Monday....

Faint lor... Public holiday = everyone don't need to work!!!

SO many people lor... faint... go wave-pool oso so many pple... go lazy-pool oso people... faint... but oso la... quite fun... and the first time go swimming with baby... haha... and finally...... he can lift me up for very the long... (hmmmm... in water -_-''' hahahahhahah)

Just b4 we set out..... :)

Reaching the complex.....

Baby buying the tickets ($2/pax)
I decided to tk this pic out of arge.. hehe

Our tickets..... hehe...

Inside the simming complex.....


We stayed there for about 2hrs b4 we decided to leave.... cos too many people liao lor.... hehe... cos i wanna go Jurong West there eat sushi.... haha... sis n bro joined us there:>



HAPPY!!!!!

Now, looking forward for OUR 3D2N batam retreat!!!! hehe... must tk alot photos... lolx HAPPY~~~~ YEAH!!!

Presents from baby

The puppies in the workshop open their eyes last Friday le... hehe... so cute lor.... haven take their picture yet.... very cute... hahahaha....

Last Friday, baby suppose to end work at 1.30pm.. den suddenly he msn me stating that he might be doing some O.T.... Den around lunch time, he sms mi stating tat he is going for a meeting, and will call me after the meeting ends... I dint realli care so much as he always wanted to do so much sai-gang... lolx.... anyway, i was also busy in the ofc....

We met @ Jurong point for dinner, Ambush, followed by Billy Bomber... too hungry.... haha.. Went to Fairprice after tat... wanted to get a new water bottle cos the current one not in good condition... but baby joked with me saying that the water leak from the bottle can be solved using Scott-tape, and just wash a few more times den the smell will not be there.... I don know why i so agitated and very unhappy... I told him "It's just a bottle wah... i can pay myself... dint ask u to pay wah"..... *angry* so dint tok to him after tat for some time.... anyway, just got a pack of instant noodle fm Fairprice... went to watson n value to "anyhow" buy things... cos whenever i not in good mood.... i like to buy things... lolx...

Saturday, wake up and realised my sweet baby had transferred all my things from the big office bag to the Agnes B bag... so sweet.... *but still angry abt ytd incident* ... anyway, b4 i get out of the hse to meet Jac for lunch suntec... I wanted to put my make-up kit into my bag... den.... A Nike PINK WATER BOTTLE was in the bag.... den i realise why baby dint wanted me to buy the bottle ytd... MY BABY is realli very SWEET~~~ sorry for being angry tat nite @ jurong point...

And tat nite, after the majong session with my fren fm Astar in my room, baby ask mi to close my eyes... den he present mi a Ikea's laptop support... hehe...


So, the whole story is.... he dint do go for any meeting or do O.T. on Friday... Instead, he went to Queensway and Ikea to get mi the two things.... I tink he is very cute n nice..... hehe..


Went to have a late dinner last nite... hmm... okok.. is supper le... hehe... den went to The Cathy for a movie, Phobia 2.... haha... the stories in the movie ok lah... but... i like the last story best... damn funny..... hahahhahahaha.... don know is scary movie or... lolx....

Sad, tiring n stress day

Was very tired today.... maybe cos these few days dint had enough sleep.... bz-ing with all the outings, 7th mth lunar dinner and baby's bday celebration thingy... hehe...

before i went to the office, dad show mi a beehive on the tree just outside our house... OMG... the beehive so big lor.... n i dint notice it at all.. no wonder these few days got so many bees around the house... anyway... dad took some pictures and wanted mi to send them to the authority... cos I was on the fone with baby.... so i ask baby to help mi check for the authority information, so tat I can send them the information and pics... to get rid of the beehive.... When I reached office, my SWEET baby sms me that he had already informed National Park abt the beehive and they will deal with it in the afternoon.... Baby done everything for mi so I don need to send any info or call them personally.... *sweet sweet*

Was very sad when I heard that someone "kidnapped" 2 of the bigger puppies at the workshop.... I used to go play with them and feed them milk lor... how can they just take and go.... feeling sad... so, the whole day, dint even have the mood to even play with the 4 newborn puppies.... dad was asking mi why i dint bring them in to play with like wat i normally do.... haii... just got no mood.....

Just now, borrowed sis's car and went to have dinner with Baby's family at his hse de coffee shop... they ordered many dishes... super full... don't know is it bcos me around, or they usually order so much de.... anyway.... don't know why super pai seh and quiet whenever with his family..... don't know what to say or what topic to touch on.... so I thought the best is not to speak too much..... :)

Just reached home and prepared some seaweed salad for Baby... for him to eat for tmr breakfast.... hehe...

ok la... tired le.... going sleep le.... *nite nite*

Baby's Birthday

My First Blog is about…… Baby's 30th Birthday :>

Celebrated for him for… hmmm… 2 days ba…. Hehe…

Yesterday, wake up early to make cupcakes for him… it was quite a mess and I was in a rush... hahaha... cos I wanna make sure I completed it before he comes home….

I had searched many many days for the frosting information… asking Pearline for ideas n information….. it was quite funny when I was looking for the vanilla extract… I found the bottle stating vanilla essence… but… the liquid in the bottle is BROWN… I thought vanilla essence should be White (cos vanilla ice cream is white wah…. Lol)… so I tot ALL the products had expired…. Hahaha… finally, I called Pearline and ask her wat is the different between essence and extract… n asked her why the product is brown de... so weird de….. lolx… den she told mi that vanilla extract/essence is BROWN lor… lolx… funny… I tink I am very silly n blur… but I learnt a lesson… hehe..

And most importantly… have to thanks Qi for accompanying to with the searching and buying of the ingredients… we had went to Jurong West, Daiso, Giant, Clementi… and lastly, she had to bring everything back to her place cos I meeting Baby after the “shopping”.

Anyway, back to making the cupcake n frosting…. I was a rush cos I had o complete it before Baby knock off from work yesterday…. And the frosting was yellow before I added the blue colouring… but… after I added the blue tint, the frosting became green… -__- cos yellow + blue become green… lolx… so I kept adding the colouring till it became blue… hehe… (cos Baby like blue….) initially, when I casually asked Baby wat colour he like… he told mi black…. Faint lor… where gt Birthday make BLACK cake… den followed by blue… so I decided to make the blue frosting… hehe…

I managed to finish the cakes secretly before Baby came to my place… hehe… n I kept the cake in the fridge… but don know why he so blur… lolx.. cos he open the fridge so~~~~ many times… but dint see the box… lolx…

Anyway, we borrowed my Dad’s car and went to Vivo for a movie at 9.30pm… Baby dint know that I already secretly put the cakes in the car… hehe… ( I was quite worried that Baby will see the cake…) After movie, we went to the Henderson Waves… hehe… Baby was surprised (and also touched <---- I tink la) when he saw the cakes…. Hehe… anyway, we took some pics and celebrated his Birthday there... :)

Today, we went to West Coast Park for a picnic… we had prepared a lot of food… hmmm…. Got seaweed salad, chicken nuggets, grilled chicken wings, onion rings, garlic breads, grapes, and ice water… haha… and we FINISH all the food… haha… that’s why I put on so much weight… hahahha… anyway, I tink he really like the birthday card tat I hide it in the picnic mat… lolx…

Baby… HAPPY BIRTHDAY… LOVES YOU…. Hope u will be happy everyday…. N may ALL your wishes come true…..