Married Life in our Home sweet home

We had officially moved into our Home Sweet Home on 23rd July 2011. It’s nice to have our own house. I can do whatever I wanna do in my hse. we can have our very big personal area….

But when it is a headache when comes to:-
• house loan (It’s better now… Yesterday, we went down to the HDB brance to change the CPF contribution for the hse… No more Giro deduction monthly from now on… happy)
• PUB bills (every mth diff leh… no average amount), Town council Payments ($48/mth), Hp bills (Cant avoid)
• Insurances (A must have for protection….. maybe more to protect the other half …. I always scare that if something bad happen to 1 of us…. Must at least left something for the other half)
• CLEANING the hse, (I’m lucky cos baby will vacuum and mop the floor every Sunday… The other time he help to clean the window while I was taking a nap… ) Yesterday, he asked me to help him clean the aircon filters… but in the end he do it himself…. I think he might be afraid that I climb too high and fall? Hehe…. Anyway, it’s sweet~~
• cleaning the FOUR hamster cages (hmmmm… I know the hamsters are mine…. But… u know me la… I’m always 3-minutes de… now I seldom play with them le… maybe oso bcos they are placed outside the hse… so Baby taking care them for me… hehe) Maybe that’s why he don’t wanna let me buy guinea pig… lol…
• Bianco (Baby will bring him for walks… sometime he wake up early like 5am to bring him down…. He says Bianco very Ke Lian to be at home whole day…. I oso got help wor… I bathe him myself hor…. And I play with him… hehehe…)
• Disagreement/arguments/unhappiness (this occurs when 2 pple stay 2gather with different living habits, different living culture, different bring-up. Baby hates me whenever I suddenly hot-/short temper… I keep nagging… But I don’t understand why he never listen and never understand. But I would says that Baby is very nice to me, he will always let me win when the situation is bad, or even when I am just being a “ass-hole”… lolx… Overall, am lucky that Baby will always try to know and understand why I gt so fed up…. And he will promise to change… even though his promise always lasted few days or few weeks… and he will FORGETS… lol…. And the cycle repeat again~~

To all my friends out there, it’s always nice to stay 2gather, enjoy each other companion, and the feeling of missing each other when u never meet for few days…

But it is a total different story when u comes to LIVE 2gather, and seeing each other every single day. Everyone have to make adjustments. No one is perfect. And always forgive and forget dealing with small matters…. And married is not just 2 pple issues… It’s 2 families thingy….

I don’t know what will come next…. I but don’t see any easy life in a married life…. Maybe u can when u marry a millionaire (and he gives u a lot of his money to spend!! No point he don’t share anything with u right… lol), and u heck care about everything u see or he do… U don’t bother about how much he show his care and concern, and u got a maid or many maids, and u can do whatever u wished for, he don bother what u do or where u go….. LOL…. But I don’t tink it is a married life le…. Maybe it’s easier to get a Sugar-Daddy… lolx…

Therefore…. Married life is never easy!! Hahahhahahaha…. But I world still say it is enjoyable and if ur hubby is as loving as mine…. LOL….

Journey toward our HOMR SWEET HOME

Time passes very fast.

I remember that Baby and myself went for our 2nd HDB appointment at HDB HUB on 3 Nov 2010. That was the day we officially have our flat, our very first asset.

Life started to be busy since that day...

Finding a contractor/interior designer, browsing through countless designing magazines, choosing our theme, choosing the floor/wall tiles, the window grill colour and design, deciding on the false ceiling design, cove lights design, buying toiletries, down lights, ceiling lights, basins, kitchen sink, shower sprays, taps..

And currently, towards the end of the renovation, choosing the colour for the walls, cabinets, wardrobe, TV console, type of curtain, sofa, coffe table, dinning table, build-in oven...etc...

It was fun shopping for the electronic applicators, cooking utensil, carpet, and many many small items... But seriously, it's very tired... Rushing from 1 place to another place is not a nice thing to do it few times weekly.... I believed that baby oso feel the same..

We had a lot arguments, different point of views, unhappiness, sadness, ups and down, EM days.... It was very tough during the past few months, decision making is oso not easy...

But after so many months of hard work, our HOME is almost done!!!
Owning a house is not easy, it drained all our savings, even monthly payout... But, no matter wat, it is gg to be OUR HOME SWEET HOME..

Even though there are still more to come, I'm ready to build the lovely home with Baby^^

BABY, we must Jia You... Love u alot...

For far away u~~

I saw u today (on skype) and realized how far we have grown. I know I should talk to you and ask how you're doing. And I really wish that I could. But it just occured to me that we are strangers now. It's ok that you have moved on, it's ok that you are busy. I know that many things are different now. I've been staying strong. And I know u had too. Jia you in your life, career, relationship and new friendship~~

We didn't promise that we will be best friends forever.
We didn't need to- we just knew we'd always have each other. :)

almost a year

Been almost a year since I last login to my blog... Many things had happened within a year...

Baby had proposed to me on e 15/08/2010 @ lower seletar reservoir with e candles stating "WILL U MARRY ME", and now I am Happily married to baby. We had our ROM on the 10/10/2010 at Sentosa...We had bought a 4-room corner 104 meter-square flat at Yishun @ almost 400k... Officially received our keys on 03/11/2010... Renovation had just started on 14/03/2011... Hoping everything will run smoothly...

Resign from dad's company and started a new job as a laboratory executive in NTU on Nov 2010. Having Yiliang as my buddy is 1 of the best things in my work life.. it's quite tiring to work here sometime.. Btw, baby had oso joined NTU 1week after me.. So, we go work n home everyday... Sweet~~

Jac had resign fm NTU early this year and is now on her new track of life and career.. Happy for her but miss her a lot~
Sheena is still happily with Thomas and now planning for her project B... we are still meeting monthly for some catch up.. Most of the time @ JPT. Cos it's near my dad's place... Hehe..
Cb had been promoted in her workplace n seems to enjoy her work much more... i looking forward tat she will find her mr. Right soon:)
Peiqi had join e DBS n seems to be busy everyday.. Quite sad tat dint really tok or c her nowadays...
YiRu had join SIA!! I tink tat's her dream to fly ard.. Finally can travel around e world!!
Diana had brought Filipe back to Singapore... And all of us had officially met him... Baby keep saying he's handsome... Hehe... Indeed he is... Hahahaha... Most ang mo quite nice looking de wAh...
Pearline had delivered Faith on e 17/03/11, her 2nd child after Joy Joy... So happy for her... Gal, must Jia you in ur family..

Currently for myself, I am busy with the Hse renovation.. And we are trying to save as much as we can as the Hse had drained all our saving and monthly salary.. And there's still more to come..Sometimes, I complain to baby tat life is tough cos we do not have spare money for ourselves.. Can't go oversea... Can't buy things... Etc...

However, I know deep in my heart... As long tat baby is there for me... It's enough~~

PS3 God of Wars 3

Finally i got the feeling that it’s a Saturday… Baby no longer required to work alternate morning and late shifts… now he only needs to do normal/late shift… which means that no working on Saturday!! Yeah!! Even though he still needs to go back for some patching every 3rd Saturday of each month… but compare to the last few months… happy~

We wake up early in the morning yesterday… Baby wanted to get a Sata 20Gb hard-disk from Sim Lim… He said that he learn a new technique to back up my laptop info/pictures. But we dint manage to find the item….

Since the release of the God of War III, I know that he wish to own the game. However, I told him that he already had the Street Fighter game, and din’t wants him to buy. But actually, I had planned to buy the game for him these few days, and give it to him as a surprise… I knew that he had a lot of interest in this game… cos I had seen him playing the GOW I on his PSP for hundreds of times… even after he had completed the game for several times…

When baby start checking the retail price for GOWIII in Sim Lim, I wanted to say “no” to buying the game. Cos I wanted give it to him as a little surprise present, my plan is i buy the game and put it on his desk, so when he come home and found the game on his desk. But my plan failed, because the whole trip yesterday, from Sim Lim to Suntec to North Point to Yishun central, his eyes lights up whenever he sees the game… Therefore, I decided to get the game for him yesterday. So, surprise no more~~

He was such a little kid, so happy and keep saying that he is the main character Kratos… -_- but I know that he is very excited about the new game that he wanted for so long.

Ever though there is no surprise as what I initially planned, but Baby is still very very happy… he took some pictures of the game box, the invoice and keep telling me that he so happy that I bought the game for him. Just like a little kid…

That’s my baby~~

朋友就是把你看透了,还能喜欢你的人…

Come into my blog and I suddenly realized that Baby and I had been together for 295days … I feel that time passes very fast… And I suddenly feel that it had been quite some time since I meet up some of my friends….

When we were young, we feel that friendship is so important. Our friends always come first no matter what… That was when we were not earning much, and what we are searching for is just some plain happiness… We started to grow, from youngster to young adult… From penniless to rich little person… Maybe we are rich in our bank, our life, rich in some branded things that we own… but how many of us are rich in life and friends?

That day, I was wondering… Who should I call when I seriously need someone to accompany me, to be with me… There is a quote stating that.. 朋友就是把你看透了,还能喜欢你的人… There were times that we are all in so good terms, however, there were so moments that we feel that we do not know each other that well… There might be times that we suspect each other… but就算是believe,中间也藏了一个lie. However, I know that if there is any lie, that lie will not be the 1 which will harm anyone. It can be a lie to make a situation into a win-win situation, or, it can be a white lie… the type of lie is depending on how we look at it.

I was chatting to Jac on the phone the other day… I was telling her that god is fair in a way. He will not let us have the best of everything.. we will not have all the best friends/people my our side all the times… because they will move on and search for their own best friends… Maybe he give u 1 person, he will take away another 1… I don’t know why I got so upset when I told baby about some incients in the past…

I happened to go into Qi’s blog, and realized and remember that Qi, Alvin and mi used to go out together often.. But we seldom even chat recently. And I realize that I can’t even remember Yiru’s mobile number now… The numbers that I used to call so often... And I had to search the phonebook for the numbers… I do not receive much sms from them… I don not know how are they and how’s their work and bf,,, I have not meet Qi, Yiru, Pearline, Chunbing, Diana, Jac, Ade etc for such a long time… no time to catch up, no time for a chill up, no time for a movie, no time for just a coffee…. Anyway, I know that it requires 2 hands to clap, not just a party can do everything.. Different people got different views, different concepts, and different things they want in their life… It’s actually a choice…

My routine...?

Beginning of the month: Sian…

Mid-month: Almost there…

End-month: Pay-day J

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Monday: Not the worse day… But hoping that weekend will arrive earlier

Tuesday: it’s still the beginning of the week

Wednesday: 2 more days to Friday

Thursday: it’s just another day

Friday: Weekend… wondering what to do @ night… thinking about mahjong~

Saturday: Don’t feel like doing anything… just rot around @ home… Thinking about friends and relationship… Thinking about all incidents in the past and incidents for the week…

Sunday: Feeling down, hoping that it is a Saturday, so can really utilize the weekend... feeling tired

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Morning: Waking up feeling tired… just hoping to sleep for a few more minutes

Afternoon: Thinking about lunch…

Late noon: Hoping to knock off from work asap

Evening: Dinner and online games

Night: 9pm TV drama… Chatting with Baby… Brush teeth and Good night… hoping for sweet dreams

Mid-night: Sometime wake up feeling terrible, and having shortage of breath, Nightmares? Sometimes, the nightmare make me feel scared, anxious, or upset… Nightmares are not real and cannot harm me, but I do not feel safe even when I am awake.