We had officially moved into our Home Sweet Home on 23rd July 2011. It’s nice to have our own house. I can do whatever I wanna do in my hse. we can have our very big personal area….
But when it is a headache when comes to:-
• house loan (It’s better now… Yesterday, we went down to the HDB brance to change the CPF contribution for the hse… No more Giro deduction monthly from now on… happy)
• PUB bills (every mth diff leh… no average amount), Town council Payments ($48/mth), Hp bills (Cant avoid)
• Insurances (A must have for protection….. maybe more to protect the other half …. I always scare that if something bad happen to 1 of us…. Must at least left something for the other half)
• CLEANING the hse, (I’m lucky cos baby will vacuum and mop the floor every Sunday… The other time he help to clean the window while I was taking a nap… ) Yesterday, he asked me to help him clean the aircon filters… but in the end he do it himself…. I think he might be afraid that I climb too high and fall? Hehe…. Anyway, it’s sweet~~
• cleaning the FOUR hamster cages (hmmmm… I know the hamsters are mine…. But… u know me la… I’m always 3-minutes de… now I seldom play with them le… maybe oso bcos they are placed outside the hse… so Baby taking care them for me… hehe) Maybe that’s why he don’t wanna let me buy guinea pig… lol…
• Bianco (Baby will bring him for walks… sometime he wake up early like 5am to bring him down…. He says Bianco very Ke Lian to be at home whole day…. I oso got help wor… I bathe him myself hor…. And I play with him… hehehe…)
• Disagreement/arguments/unhappiness (this occurs when 2 pple stay 2gather with different living habits, different living culture, different bring-up. Baby hates me whenever I suddenly hot-/short temper… I keep nagging… But I don’t understand why he never listen and never understand. But I would says that Baby is very nice to me, he will always let me win when the situation is bad, or even when I am just being a “ass-hole”… lolx… Overall, am lucky that Baby will always try to know and understand why I gt so fed up…. And he will promise to change… even though his promise always lasted few days or few weeks… and he will FORGETS… lol…. And the cycle repeat again~~
But when it is a headache when comes to:-
• house loan (It’s better now… Yesterday, we went down to the HDB brance to change the CPF contribution for the hse… No more Giro deduction monthly from now on… happy)
• PUB bills (every mth diff leh… no average amount), Town council Payments ($48/mth), Hp bills (Cant avoid)
• Insurances (A must have for protection….. maybe more to protect the other half …. I always scare that if something bad happen to 1 of us…. Must at least left something for the other half)
• CLEANING the hse, (I’m lucky cos baby will vacuum and mop the floor every Sunday… The other time he help to clean the window while I was taking a nap… ) Yesterday, he asked me to help him clean the aircon filters… but in the end he do it himself…. I think he might be afraid that I climb too high and fall? Hehe…. Anyway, it’s sweet~~
• cleaning the FOUR hamster cages (hmmmm… I know the hamsters are mine…. But… u know me la… I’m always 3-minutes de… now I seldom play with them le… maybe oso bcos they are placed outside the hse… so Baby taking care them for me… hehe) Maybe that’s why he don’t wanna let me buy guinea pig… lol…
• Bianco (Baby will bring him for walks… sometime he wake up early like 5am to bring him down…. He says Bianco very Ke Lian to be at home whole day…. I oso got help wor… I bathe him myself hor…. And I play with him… hehehe…)
• Disagreement/arguments/unhappiness (this occurs when 2 pple stay 2gather with different living habits, different living culture, different bring-up. Baby hates me whenever I suddenly hot-/short temper… I keep nagging… But I don’t understand why he never listen and never understand. But I would says that Baby is very nice to me, he will always let me win when the situation is bad, or even when I am just being a “ass-hole”… lolx… Overall, am lucky that Baby will always try to know and understand why I gt so fed up…. And he will promise to change… even though his promise always lasted few days or few weeks… and he will FORGETS… lol…. And the cycle repeat again~~
To all my friends out there, it’s always nice to stay 2gather, enjoy each other companion, and the feeling of missing each other when u never meet for few days…
But it is a total different story when u comes to LIVE 2gather, and seeing each other every single day. Everyone have to make adjustments. No one is perfect. And always forgive and forget dealing with small matters…. And married is not just 2 pple issues… It’s 2 families thingy….
I don’t know what will come next…. I but don’t see any easy life in a married life…. Maybe u can when u marry a millionaire (and he gives u a lot of his money to spend!! No point he don’t share anything with u right… lol), and u heck care about everything u see or he do… U don’t bother about how much he show his care and concern, and u got a maid or many maids, and u can do whatever u wished for, he don bother what u do or where u go….. LOL…. But I don’t tink it is a married life le…. Maybe it’s easier to get a Sugar-Daddy… lolx…
Therefore…. Married life is never easy!! Hahahhahahaha…. But I world still say it is enjoyable and if ur hubby is as loving as mine…. LOL….
